If my ex doesn’t score with taking advantage of the rebound, there is a chance he will be coming right back. What’s different now, is that I saw the strategy my ex was trying to cook up because I was on the other side of the court watching him play. My family and friends are so shocked by his behaviour, could it be possible it’s a distraction and he doesn’t have to think about us parting?
It’s so unfair I’m here heartbroken and hoping for someone nice to come along whilst he’s off having a lovely time in the honeymoon period with someone else.
I came home to a note on the table after 12 years and the day before he was telling me he loved me.
The emotional abuse I felt was devastating and I never want to feel that again.
I lost myself in my relationship and catered to his every need always before myself.
Your site is a daily inspiration for me and has helped me from falling completely apart.
I haven’t seen or spoken to him in 30 days and am letting my actions speak for me. It is true about the family not knowing because his mom didn’t even know he was seeing someone else. He is now engaged to someone else and I felt a little down about it because everything just happened so fast. This post and others of yours have really helped as i deal with the break up of a 4 year relationship 4 months ago…
The breakout on your forehead begins to read “FML” in Braille.
Rebound relationships, once understood and identified, will actually help you get over your ex, your breakup and your heartbreak much faster than trying to FBI-investigate, stalk, obsess, drink, hot-selfie post and gossip your way out of it, ever will. Everytime I miss him I come to this blog and read it. You talk about whatever I need on right moment Love you. I love your last picture on Instagram as well I’ve heard he’s been dating countless of girls but its only one date and he goes to the next date some even the same day.
Since then we were going back and forth him dragging me along and putting me on the back burner until i finally decided to stop contact. I am going through the same thing right now with my ex.
AND THEN i find out he’s with another girl and doing almost the exact same things he did with/for me and at first i was so hurt thinking our relationship meant nothing to him before me friend pointed out, its just a rebound and he’s doing the same things because 1. he’s trying to make her into the girl you were, trying to relive the good parts of the relationship. He is taking the new girl on all the same dates just in a shorter time span.